yippeee!

signed and sealed...and now, just waiting for it to be delivered!

i know people say 2 years isn't that long..but the waiting is still such an agony!

but, im happy its finally DONE!!

another great big "CHECK!" for the good ol' list (^_^)

mr sun aka mr interior designer : let's go take pictures this weekend okeyy!

Flea Market, c u there!! (^_^)

Remember my previous post on "something" that i was working on?

Here it is!

Do join us at Booth 12 and 16. C u there!!!!

Items for sale includes;

1. Plus Size Clothes

2. Second hand branded clothes (Levi's, MNG, H&M, Dorothy Perkins)

3. Handbags

4. Second hand branded shoes (Converse, Nike)

5. Jewelries

6. Household items

7. Cupcakes

*All second hand clothes are at almost new condition!

Do come!

The Final Analysis

The Final Analysis

People are often unreasonable, illogical and self-centered:
Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives;
Be kind anyway.
If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies;
Succeed anyway.
If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you;
Be honest and frank anyway.
What you spend years building, someone may destroy overnight;
Build anyway.
If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous;
Be happy anyway.
Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough;
Give the world the best you’ve got anyway.
You see, in the final analysis, it is all between you and God;
It was never between you and them anyway.

(Wayne W. Dyer).

shoot the messenger?

someone very close to me recently broke up with her boyfriend of 4 years..

he ended the relationship stating various reasons that to me, seemed immature and something he should have said at the beginning of the relationship, not when it is already 4 years down the line, not when she is planning marriage preparations, and certainly not when they have paid downpayment for a house and make everlasting promises..

she still have hopes tho..as most women would..and he, instead of letting her go truly and finally, keep giving her hope that they might reconcile and then rejected her again and again..but she persists on this hope because in her mind (and her heart) the only way he/she can let this go if either of them found someone else..

two weeks ago i found out that he actually have another girlfriend, and has been seeing her officialy for months..

i checked and verified..

i decided to tell gently break the news..having her best interest at heart, she can finally really truly let go..

unfortunately she is now not speaking to me :(

have i lost a friend because i told her the truth?

i know our friendship is stronger than that and i know it will get better once she gets better, after all this is not about me, this is about her, and her pain, and as a good friend, as her best friend, i only have her best interest at heart and i would never deliberately give her more sadness; and i know she knows that ..but meanwhile, this still hurts.. :(

is it better to know or not to know?