information overload

someone today told me some information about someone that i do not care to know..asal nak kena bagitau? ni la orang melayu suka sangat jaga tepi kain orang lain.. they would always start with "i rasa u kena tau nie, i tak nak nanti u terkejut" or "u tau tak so and so this and that..oh u didnt? oh okay, i dint mean to tell you i thought u already know" like helloooooooo!!?? kenape nak kena bagitau? u know perfectly well that i am far away here in the uk and manalah i nak tau everything that happens in malaysia..sides suka hati orang tu la dia nak buat ape pun why do people always think its their damn duty to give you every single information macam reporter tak bergaji about other people just because they are close to you? aisehhh...now i dah tak senang duduk..ishkkk..