i started off by wanting to write about several things that has happened these past weeks, but after a long discussion with the BF, he made me realise that i do not owe anyone any explanation and if i really want to let it go, i should let it go both in my heart and in my head, and he knows fully well that if i started writing about it, all those feelings of hurt, resentment, disbelief and most importantly, betrayal, will come rushing back and i would again be hurt by those very people i thought closest to me..
sometimes people can be become unbelievable arrogant and believed that they are and would always be right, forgettting that being human we all make mistakes and if you think that you are above accepting apologies/or asking for forgiveness, then there's really nothing i can do. i have made peace with some mistakes i have made, bridges that i have broken, sometimes simply because i was too angry and too upset to understand. but having said that, i have no regrets for the choices i make and letting some things/people go is the only way i can move on with my life...its never an easy decision and/but often you have to ask yourself, is it really worth it?
sometimes its worth listening to the other side of the story before making conclusions and hurting people you love..
just a thought..
3 comments:
some bridges needs to be broken first before you can built new ones.. a serious note, coming from you, hope everything's ok :)
-v-
As humans, we can be cruel and unfair, with or without realizing it. We tend to ignore the other side of story, by creating and reinforcing the story of our own. We're just humans. You may not be able to change others, but you can change what you feel and what you think. Now cheer up, please :-)
hi v, everything is slightly better now, thanks :)
hi jumper, thanks for the note :)
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