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*ni post yang agak sensitive, sila jangan terasa ya, ni my opinion saja, minta maaf kalau ada yang terkecik hati*

kalau dah ada facebook and emails and twitter and sewaktu dengan nya, kenapa masih perlu buat kad kahwin? nak kena design lagi, nak print, nak buat envelope, nak tulis alamat, nak beli setem, nak kena pergi post office beberapa kali, tunggu address orang bagi. macam leceh kan? kalau guna alam cyber, senang, select all, type sekali, one click and its out to everyone you know. save duit dan for sure tak akan tertinggal sesiapa.

do u agree?

i dont.

i hate getting wedding invitations via emails or even WORSE, Facebook.

to me, sending a wedding invitation is suppose to be a process, an event in itself, a joint effort made by the family, by the future bride and groom, its like this is us, inviting you, our lovely friends and family, to join us in the celebration of our marriage. i would spend time choosing the perfect colour, the perfect shape and the perfect wordings. i look forward to the process of sending out notices to everyone to give me their addresses and the post offices trips and buying stamps and finally pushing the stack of crisp white envelopes through the mailbox. (^_^)

to me its a gazillion times more better than a facebook message.

its crude and cold and boring and makes me tempted to click NO.

and what if im the kind of person to only check my Facebook once a month? i would have missed your invitation. so i dont get why you want to send such an important invite via Facebook, UNLESS you're just sending it for the sake of sending, kalau ada yg accept, ada lah, kalau takde, takpe.

i guess its easier for most people, especially kalau dah last minute and you dont have time to send the cards. but then, it just goes to show that you didnt think about me earlier and i only got the invitation 3 days before the wedding, which brings me to ask, ni ikhlas ke tak invite nie, ke sebab risau tak cukup orang datang tapi makanan dah order banyak? macam baik takyah invite langsung kan?

and ok2, i have to be fair to those yang memang have no choice, for watever reason, to send out invite via emails and facebooks, its not the person who sends it that im againts, its not personal, its the fact that people seems to accept this to be a normal thing. like its a totally acceptable practice where as it is suppose to just a backup thing! how in the world did we survive before the existence of Facebook?? ok jer kan?

people do take these things for granted. which is weird. its your wedding day. how can anything relating to one of the biggest event in your life be taken for granted?

ps : okey, to my friends yang did send out their invites via Facebook, i dont mean to be mean (eh). this is just how i feel okey. i still love u :p. really. and oh, congratulations on your wedding, semoga berbahagia ke anak cucu, Amin :)